Life Hurts!

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 Life hurts doesn’t it? Every moment seems to take a toll on you! Let alone the current unprecedented scenario but otherwise are your ever satisfied with yourself and your circumstances?  Don’t we blame ourselves  and our situations all day? I do.

The day you receive low grades ( one mark less also at times -that was the old me, I was cribbing for 19/20), 

The day your dinner plan is cancelled,
The day you discover your crush has a girlfriend/boyfriend - heartbreaking moment at that. Or otherwise you suspect he/she is in a relationship -that destroys your mood too.

The day mom and dad have a fight,
The day your siblings or friends hurt you,
The day your favourite food is not there at the restaurant,
The day you wake up with zero notifications on social media,
The day you want ice -cream but have a terrible cold,
The day when things just don’t work out the way you wanted!
And yes birthdays- the days when everyone cries for no reason?

The day you feel not loved, 
The day you are broken inside and nothing seems to fix things right!
The dark moments you shiver to face again in life!
The times when you just feel unwanted and everyone around you seems to make life hell. 
That one moment which can destroy you forever if you let it! 

We all tend to have our own battles and none can handle anything other than their own ,let’s be practical we are experienced with our own battlefields and enemies -facing them over and over. Getting the same wound and maybe reacting the same way. I cry over the same issue repeatedly.
No advice seems to fix the crack in your heart. In fact ,feeling like beating up anyone advising you about any damn thing is pretty normal.

 But the question remains does life really just hurt? According to me it breaks you into pieces and destroys you like never before just to get back stronger and better armed for the struggle in future. Not just that but also enabling  you to appreciate even the happiness of smallest magnitudes as you now know what that really means!

Life’s gonna be a struggle all the time. Never can anything satisfy the human desire what so ever! Something will always lack and the glass will always be half empty. 

I’d want to become that kid again who never thought about people,opinions, past ,future 
or even the next moment. Always talking my heart out ,never pitying myself every second, blaming myself for something that was never under my control , or forgiving myself the very moment I realised what went wrong.

Let’s just pause and enjoy the moment, maybe it’s a gift to actually be able to face life -this remarkable journey that defines us. Our struggles ,our imperfections and our choices that make us who we are. For me tolerating someone just like me in everything would be a pain. I am sure none us would appreciate that? Let’s be honest.

Just doing our best every moment can do wonders, something we know that’s right for us. A pause is also essential- to rejuvenate and know the person you are.

Having a heart to heart conversation with a loved one, 
reading a book that teleports you,
watching a movie that makes you laugh,
listening to a song that touches your heart,
a glance at the dazzling night sky,
feeling the cool breeze nourishing your soul,
taking a pause that let’s you enjoy the very moment.

The Universe knows what we deserve let’s do our best and leave the rest. Happiness, love and all good things are on their way. Let’s be patient and wait. 
 
Being yourself , loving yourself and respecting yourself is the foremost thing. I am personally going to try and follow all this. I know it’s easy to talk but very difficult to control your feelings and fight it out. But what option do we have? 


Life hurts and one has to overcome challenges to ultimately evolve for good.
We are all  in this together , let’s just stay calm and take it easy. There is always light at the end of the tunnel.

With hope and love.









Comments

  1. UnknownMay 17, 2021 at 10:58 PM

    Dis is so beautiful n so simply narrated....keep it up Kashin❤️👍

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