Illusion Of Expectation!

 Did you expect the xyz event to happen ever in your life? Honestly I believe this saying “Never say never”! We expect so many things from ourselves, friends, family, other individuals and life. Alas! Do they ever come true? You expect someone to not do something do they fail you? Do you fail yourself? 

Let’s begin with reality. I’m a cancerian, a zodiac sign known to stay in the fantasy world that’s way away from actual reality. But it’s a better option to know your reality and dream of an amalgamation of realistic and fantasy world. 

Too much of anything is injurious. Too much reality spoils the magic of life there by the beauty of living. But that doesn’t mean one is lost in a fantasy world all the time. 

We expect and desire so much. But often are let down by other individuals or situations. They don’t meet our levels ,either break us into pieces or sometimes luckily just make us very happy.

The closest ones give the most pain cause we never expect pain in return. Why do we even expect so much from people in the first place? Ain’t they humans? Or wait it’s just that some of us are way too sensitive perhaps. 

There’s always an ideal situation we expect to take place. Does it even exist?

Don’t we expect ourselves to adapt to everything in a short while just like cold blooded animals? But mind you we are warm blooded! ;)

Pain, change, situations are so inevitable. Can’t fear these. We may lose the ultimate motive to live. Why don’t we give time to ourselves to accept these? Just expecting immediate changes in yourself and your behaviour is not self love for sure. 

There’s no right time for anything. Is there? Isn’t every moment a chance to do something you love and are passionate about?

 Doing everything right, perfectly and perhaps being the best can often spoil the joy of doing it itself... While enjoying it can greatly make you strive towards excellence.

Trusting yourself, your capabilities, being faithful, loving yourself, taking care of your needs,being grateful for this day and your happiness is your responsibility. 

I’m afraid no one can save you if don’t save yourself! People are there to help you. But you go through it yourself. Be your bestie. Don’t expect too much from this sweetheart too ;).

Stay in reality but never stop dreaming!
Pamper yourself a little... and
Don’t forget to take time out for things you love!