End?

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 Everything that begins has to come to an end… isn’t it? 

But how can one determine an ending that’s apt for anything at all? 
Is every ending painful? Does it always have to be beautiful? And most importantly is it always for the best? 

Whether it’s that friendship that touched the heart for months ,or something that began with a ton of false expectations, or just a concurrent cycle of the academic calendar…

It’s funny how we want to freeze some magical moments, and live them over and over again, while some or rather most are best to forget forever, than the rest. Yet, overtime human tendencies haven’t evolved, we only like to recall the best moments. 
But haven’t you wondered, about those tough times leading you to this magic? 
There’s some beauty in that struggle, isn’t it? 
In realising how overwhelming situations can be overpowered with determination or finding the ones who mean the world and would stay by your side no matter what the trouble…

We wish to control everything surrounding us, if not external then definitely internal conflicts at a very high scale. Not willing to feel certain emotions, or accepting particular situations, or just escaping reality through a fantasy world. Sometimes I wonder, it’s not really our fault when everything seems out of place and it all wants to come to a devastating end, atleast in the head. 
Exactly, in the head- assumptions! None of us know what the future holds, yet we build our proclaimed beliefs and sometimes remain entrapped. 

Is everything and every situation actually an experience in the vast adventure called life? Are the most beautiful ones also the most painful? Would there be a way pain couldn’t be felt? Wouldn’t that also imply happiness would not mean anything…
The entirety of this, is probably to make a million mistakes ( not repeat them of course) -break yourself and feel the hollows but also, live through some of the most tender moments of  hope, compassion and love to the fullest. 

Happiness that’s dependent on external conditions is bound to be painful… 
Coming back to a question, why does everything that’s beautiful, peaceful, comforting or just joyful ever have to end? 
Is something better even needed when you’re already happy, this day? 


But, as it’s often said, everything will make perfect sense some day, so till then laugh at the confusion, smile through the tears and keep reminding yourself that everything really does happen for a reason…
To all the uncertainty that exists,
But also the uncertainty that remains in what we are most certain about,
On an adventure that’s going to become more exciting as we go on…










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